America’s Oldest Cemetery | Miles Standish Cemetery in Duxbury, MA
Discover the story of the Myles Standish Burying Grounds, where many Mayflower pilgrims are buried.

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Photo Credit : Katherine KeenanTucked away, on a quaint, residential street in Duxbury, Massachusetts, sits a small, unassuming, colonial cemetery. Nearly indistinguishable from the hundreds of other early American burial grounds dotting New England, this secluded site of rare historical significance could easily go overlooked. For those with an enthusiasm for colonial history, however, it would be a shame to pass this one by. Named for the famed military leader of the Plymouth Colony, Myles Standish Burial Ground holds the distinct honor of being dubbed our nation’s oldest cemetery (technically our oldest “maintained” cemetery), and buried here are several voyagers of the Mayflower.

Photo Credit : Alyson Horrocks
Parking next to the cemetery, on the side street of Pilgrim By Way, a name which leaves little doubt of the unique history of the town, I cross over a split rail fence and am greeted with the familiar sight of the old, New England slate grave markers, worn and weathered from centuries of exposure. Skull and winged soul effigy carvings, familiar to any who frequent this region’s old cemeteries, stare mute from the old stones.

Photo Credit : Alyson Horrocks

Photo Credit : Alyson Horrocks
On the crisp December day I explored the “oldest cemetery,” chilling sea breezes were whipping up from Plymouth Bay. Buttoning my coat up to my neck and slipping on gloves, I would not be deterred from examining the stones, from which could be gleaned fragments of the personal stories of everyday people from our long-distant past. The first burials in this cemetery took place in 1638, soon after the construction of Duxbury’s first meeting house, and though no markers from the earliest years are still in existence, the history represented by the remaining stones is compelling.

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Though most of the Myles Standish Burying Ground resembles many other New England cemeteries, one striking display of ostentation stands in stark contrast to the Yankee simplicity surrounding it. Marked by an American flag waving over a stone wall enclosure with four cannons point outward from the corners, the final resting place of “Capt. Myles Standish, 1656” is announced in big block letters on a tall wooden sign.

Photo Credit : Alyson Horrocks

Photo Credit : Alyson Horrocks
Built in 1893, the memorial testifies to the considerable expense, time, and effort invested in memorializing Standish, centuries after his death. At the time of his original interment, his grave had been marked by two small, simple, pyramid-shaped field stones. What prompted such effort nearly two hundred and forty years after his death?
The story of the Standish memorial and the rescue of this small, forgotten cemetery is a story of 19th century America’s love affair with its romanticized colonial past.
After a brief shipbuilding boom following the American Revolution, Duxbury’s economy went into a steep decline. During those years, the graves of such Mayflower notables as John Alden, William Brewster, and Myles Standish were nearly lost to history as the old burying ground became derelict and overgrown, with stray livestock roaming freely through the ancient gravestones.
In the 19th century, poets and authors such as Nathaniel Hawthorne and Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, turned their gaze to New England’s colonial roots. Longfellow created a heroic and romantic mythology of America’s early days in poems like The Midnight Ride of Paul Revere and The Courtship of Miles Standish. The latter focused on a love triangle between real-life Mayflower pilgrims, Myles Standish, John Alden, and Priscilla Mullins. Though there is little more than circumstantial evidence that the love triangle did occur, the story had been passed down through oral tradition, and Longfellow’s popular and imaginative re-telling of this romantic tale, captured the imaginations of a sentimental audience.
All three subjects of The Courtship of Miles Standish were among the founders of Duxbury. With national curiosity sparked by the tale, investigations were made into the resting places of Myles, John, and Pricilla. John and Priscilla were assumed, with good reason, to be buried alongside their children, and the hunt for their remains stopped there.

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In 1887, the recently formed Duxbury Rural Society took on the massive project of cleaning out the cemetery, cutting down the overgrowth, repairing toppled stones, and adding a fence to keep livestock off the land. With the hard work of cleanup complete, the hunt for Captain Standish’s remains began in earnest.
The search for Standish is a tale unto itself. His body was exhumed no less than three times over the course of forty-two years before he was finally placed into a copper box and sealed in a cement chamber. During the second exhumation, the bodies of his daughter, daughter-in-law, and young son were also discovered and identified. They all now rest beneath the cannons and rocks of the Standish family plot in the Miles Standish Cemetery, the oldest cemetery in the nation. At the final re-interment in 1931, a time capsule was placed in the underground chamber, which begs the question: did they expect poor Standish to be unearthed yet again?
Though the damp, coastal air, had numbed my face and toes, I roamed the burying ground for over an hour, hesitant to leave the rich history of this little, one-and-a-half acre plot on the corner of Chestnut Street and Pilgrim By Way, now so well-maintained that it’s hard to imagine it in its pre-restoration state. The jagged edges of some broken gravestones are the only sad reminders that all this was nearly lost to decay and neglect.
So, when you come to Duxbury to enjoy its stunning beaches, visit one of its famous cranberry bogs, or eat some local shellfish, don’t forget to stop by and visit one of New England’s once-forgotten treasures. If you are so inclined, bring along a copy of Longfellow and read the tale of Myles, Priscilla, and John under the shade of a tree near where all three stories end.
Have you ever visited the oldest cemetery in America? Have another favorite colonial-era cemetery? Let us know!
Miles Standish Cemetery. Chestnut Street in Duxbury, Massachusetts.
This post was first published in 2014 and has been updated.
What an interesting story! I too am a descendant of a couple pilgrims and find the history of that era quite fascinating. I too need to be back in New England learning as much as I can (firsthand) of my famous ancestors and ALL the pilgrims .
Hi Alyson. Enjoyed the article. Perhaps you saw my post on this of earlier this year. http://historicaldigression.com/2014/05/10/digging-up-myles-standish-thrice/ A lengthier version was published in the Mayflower Quarterly in September.
“Old North” (North Weymouth Cemetery Association) .. Weymouth was first settled in 1622. Old North is the original burial ground in Weymouth. Oldest “recorded” burial 1636. (Recorded in quotes due to “on paper” records… but there is likely older records lost to the years). Not only is Old North still maintained, it is still actively intering.
Wonderful, Patrick! Thanks for the link! I’m going to check that out.
Wonderfully written piece, Alyson. Wanted to point out the correct spelling of Priscilla (with an S) Alden.
Hi Alyson,
I grew up in Duxbury and am related in both Standish and Alden as well as seven other pilgrim families. As I child I can remember lining up for the Memorial Day Parade with the school band in front of that cemetery for many years. The house on Pilgrim By Way that you have captured so well in your second picture, belonged to a best friend of mine back in 50’s and 60’s. We spent many a day roaming through that cemetery.
Thanks for a great article that brought back some great memories.
Stan Ellis
Thank you, Priscilla! I have corrected it.
Greetings Alyson! I loved this-thank you so much for braving the temps and investigating. As a long time New Englander and cemetery haunt I am glad to find another old site to roam.
Take care,
Suzanne
ps..we have a couple friends in common, Patricia and Heather!
A wonderful article! Thank you so much for highlighting this historic ground. May it continue to be treated and cared for with reverence, and never forgotten. An American treasure.
Wonderful article. Love history and Yankee Magazine’s writers are the best. Do you by any chance know why some headstones in New England have a skull and crossbones? Used to explore cemeteries in New England when I lived there just for the history, and there was one cemetery that had several with skull and crossbones.
I’ve been to this cemetery many, many times and still I am in awe of the magnitude of history on display in such a simple and beautiful setting. As a boy, I would ride my bike to Hall’s corner for soda and a candy bar and then on the return sit on the wall at the Standish grave and soak in all the history surrounding me. Thanks Alyson for a great story and for rekindling those memories for me.
If you do go to Duxbury, i would recommend also visiting John Alden’s house, which is still standing, as well as the Myles Standish homesite. The Standish homesite is hard to find as it is now a very small park on a dead end street. If you’re into history, it’s worth it. The homesite has stunning views of Plymouth across Duxbury Bay and you can imagine Myles Standish himself admiring the beautiful panorama.
This is an awesome place. Does anyone know where Stephen Hopkins of The Mayflower is buried? He was my 10th g grandfather.
I believe Mayflower Hopkins is buried in Plymouth. Checkout (google) the Pilgrim Hopkins Heritage Society for additional info about your relatives/ancestors.
I am also a descendant of Hopkins.
Great article. I grew up in Duxbury in my teenage years. Both of my parents are interred across Route 3A in the newer Mayflower Cemetery. As a reply to Sandra’s question about New England headstones having skulls (& crossbones) I believe more of the older graves were adorned with skulls and wings denoting that life is fleeting. Often the latin words Memento Mori were inscribed on the headstones as well. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Memento_mori#Puritan_America
Older cemeteries make ideal places to take great gravestone rubbings. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Memento_mori#Puritan_America
Please please please do not EVER take a grave stone rubbing. Please. I beg you. The practice is extremely damaging to the stones and the damage cannot be reversed. In addition, the practice is illegal in many locations because of the damage it does. By the same token, also please do not ever attempt to “clean” a grave stone. That practice also causes a lot of damage, no matter what substance or tools you use, and is also banned in many cemeteries. If you are not a historian trained in appropriate gravestone conservation practices, please refrain from disturbing, rubbing, or cleaning stones.
In this age of readily-available digital photography, you can get excellent photos without damaging anything. And the camera lens will sometimes detect the carvings more distinctly than the human eye can!
http://www.gravematter.com/cem-ma-lynn.php Western Burial Ground in Lynn, 1637
Enjoyed your well-written article. While I live in Ohio, I have been to visit the grave of my 9th great grandfather, Myles Standish. Thanks.
Does anyone know where original Duxbury resident and hero, as much a hero if not more, as Standish, who lived a couple generations later, named Benjamin Church is buried?? And is their any such proper honoring of his gravesite??
Jeff, if you’re inquiring about Col. Benjamin Church of King Philip War fame, he left Duxbury and settled in Sakonnet(now Little Compton), Rhode Island. He died there 17 Jan 1717 and is buried in The Old Commons Burial Ground. His tomb has a monument in front with a plaque recognizing his military service.
I have lived in Hingham, ma since 9/14/86, literally on the town (Weymouth/Hingham) and county (Norfolk/Plymouth) line, having the first house on my street in Hingham and Plymouth County. There is a granite marker on my property with this fact. I own approximately 1/10th acre in Weymouth, also. I suspect many of you know Plymouth County is the oldest county in our country! I grew up in NH and went to UNH and had a car and one semester I had a schedule from heaven: m, w, f 8:00am, 9:00am, 10:00am and 11:00am with every afternoon off and all day Tu and Th off!!!!! My favorite activity was exploring historic sites all over that area and I especially loved Strawberry Banke, I believe is the correct spelling, where I explored that cemetery, so I am familiar with early ne graves and their markers. I have always been a history buff. On the way home from a VA hospital medical appointment my late husband wanted to drive through forest hills cemetery, which was really fun for both of us and we got lost and had to ask an employee how to get to the exit we were so enthralled with our experience. I met him in June 1980, after he served 8 years total in navy and its reserve and the second place he took me was to the tower in Mt. Auburn cemetery, where we had quite a view from the top. At the base of this tower is the grave of Dr. Richard, I believe was his first name, warren, who developed anesthesia while he was employed at Massachusetts general hospital ca. 1840. Ft. Warren in Boston harbor, which is very close to where my husband grew up, is named after him and it was a civil war prisoner of war camp and had a very famous “intruder”, a woman who disguised herself as a man to find her husband who was incarcerated there, was caught and was hung in one of the black velvet theater curtains for the union officers’ entertainment the theater existed and is called the lady in black, and it is rumored her ghost sings there frequently. It is always very windy there and my husband took me there several times. I also love “antique paper” and found an article in harper’s weekly, which I own, written by Winslow homer, a regular correspondent of theirs, in December 1863 with his drawings and informative article content specifically about ft. Warren. It is also very interesting MSC has a canon from Boston navy yard, which is actually in Charlestown, MA!!!!!!!!, which is where my husband enlisted in the navy and he learned his knots and was trained completely on USS Constitution (old ironsides). The first place my husband took me on a date was Walden Pond and other sites in concord, ma. That was the first time I had ever been there, too. I did not know about the “authors cemetery” in concord until the Yankee article and I intend to visit it also, on a nice day. My late husband kind of thought I had a morbid fascination with death and he called me jokingly Maude (Ruth Gordon, who was from Quincy, MA, very close to me, was the favorite actress in this area) because of her roles in Harold and Maude and rosemary’s baby. I like cemeteries, not funerals. There is quite a difference!!!!!! I also visited Mt. Auburn cemetery when I was able to get away at lunch time from a job very close to there. On nice days, I “hung out” with Mary Baker Eddy, founder of the Christian Scientist Religion, with whom I had lunch frequently, who is buried there. We enjoyed each others’ company, I believe. Our town dump has a swap section where you are allowed to take anything you want, free, with a 10 minute time limit per visit. Last summer I found a book, published shortly after her death about Mary Baker Eddy. She was a very interesting person! I suspect that book has some significant monetary value! I consider Mt. Auburn cemetery “a Victorian wonderland” and it is really beautiful with the spring flowers and their numerous flowering trees. I am looking forward to visiting MSC on a nice day. My husband is buried at Massachusetts national cemetery in Bourne, MA, which is a nice day trip and I like to eat near there, also, I did manage to eat Duxbury oysters locally during this past winter, which was a lot of fun!
There ‘s an “oops!”here (I make my share). Of course , Fort Warren was named for Dr. James Warren-the “hero of Bunker Hill”,who rather than throw his weight around to assume a command position he realized he was not best suited for,swallowed his pride and fought with the rabble- fought and died .
GOD BLESS YOU MANY TIMES OVER-!!!
I descend from people buried in this cemetery. However, might the headline writers have beed a bit more precise? Oldest ANGLO cemetery in NEW ENGLAND, perhaps. Oldest cemetery in America, not by a long shot.
Check out the Holmes family cemetery in Middletown RI. Obadiah and wife arrived in Salem, MA in 1636, became the second Baptist minister at the First Baptist Church in Newport RI. My husband is in the 10th generation. 38 Holmes, including Obadiah, wife, 5 sons are buried at the Holmes historical cemetery, now on private property.
Good article, but I strongly agree that the title is misleading. I grew up in WV very close to the Grave Creek Mound. Being about 3000 years old, a few years before the time of New England’s pilgrims.
Thank you for reprinting this article. During the summer of 1965 my parents rented a small home on Priscilla Lane in Duxbury while my father did an externship with an orthopedic surgeon whose specialty was hip surgery and cancer studies. An English teacher and lover of American literature and history, I spent hours wandering Duxbury’s historic sites, especially the burying grounds. I copied the epitaphs, took photos, and read about the early New Englanders. The summer was magical and it ended all too soon. How I wish I could return!
There are numerous cemetries older than the one that Yankee featured. Check out ones around Jamestown,Va.
What an interesting story! I too am a descendant of a couple pilgrims and find the history of that era quite fascinating. I too need to be back in New England learning as much as I can (firsthand) of my famous ancestors and ALL the pilgrims .
Hello, I like your clever play on words that this cemetery is the “oldest maintained” cemetery. Clearly, the oldest, or earliest in our nation’s history (I’m not talking about native burial grounds) burials were conducted about 3 miles down the road from our house, at the Jamestowne Settlement. Just like the first Thanksgiving was conducted a little further down the road at the Berkeley (pronounced Barkley) Plantation on Dec 4th, 1619. Two years prior to the one that got sold into the history books we read in school. I enjoy your magazine, and the fun history that abounds in New England; but next thing you know y’all will be trying to say the first president was from New England!
Cleaning of tombstones.I recently helped clean tombstones with the Daughters of the American Revolution. They used a product called D2 which Arlington National Cemetery uses.Not available yet commercially. Do not use vinegar because it will actually help lichen to grow.Also do not use shaving cream.
I am a descendant of William Brewster! I would love to know where he’s buried.
I too, am a descendant of William Brewster and was looking to see where he is buried. I then found this:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/William_Brewster_(Mayflower_passenger)
I hope this helps! If you want to stay in contact, don’t hesitate! I love finding distant relatives… 🙂 Sincerely, Cindy L. Kirk
October 17, 2020
The Noah Ely Cemetery, located in Hancock Mass. (Berkshire County) a Gem.
Came upon it many years ago when it was completely over grown. Since then some one has been kind enough to clear and clean it up. Located along Route 43 before you get to Route 7.
Hope some one enjoys it as much as we did and a thank you to who ever is now it’s custodian.
I am a descendant of Myles Standish. I know the lineage. The first five generations are known (five of which are Standish) The last four, I can easily prove. I know the names (along with all the spouses birth and death dates) of those who lived their lives after the surname Standish However, as a gift to my daughter, I would like to present adequate proof to the Daughters of the Mayflower society, so that she can join, which she (now age 47) would like to do. If anyone has any suggestions, or additional knowledge I would enjoy and really appreciate hearing from you. I was born and raised in Minnesota. It would be so very interesting to visit the oldest maintained graveyard, with as much background information as possible. Here is lineage. with spouses in parenthesis, along with birth and death dates. Myles Standish, Josiah Standish, Samuel Standish, Thomas Standish (Sarah Tracy)
Lydia Standish b. 4/22/ 1761 d. 3/3/1844
(Abraham Meacham) b. 6/24/1753 d. 12/24/1822
Harvey Meacham b. 8/9/1800 d 11/28/1878
(Fanny Aiken) b. 9/18/1804 d. 6/13/1839
Agnes Ann Meacham b. 4/23/1835 d. ?
(George Volney McGraw) b. 7/17/1825 d. ?
From here on I can or have all information, including birthdates for interest,
perspective and for a common reference for any readers.
Cassius Volney McGraw b. 9/26/1858 (have picture of these two)
(Anna Jane Adams) b. 9/24/1860
Mildred Iris McGraw b. 9/2/1883
(Burton ((Bert)) Walter French) will check date
Iris Lenore French b. 6/27/1911
(Adrian Wilfert Biehn) 3/26/09 (Dad was my hero.)
I have found that in various ways, with technology people can connect much easier, for instance on Ancestry.com I have 3rd/4th cousins with the surname Meacham. I listed all of the above with the intent of possibly connecting or helping others.
Thank you for this most interesting article. My husband and I visited this cemetery in the summer of 2017. My husband a descendant of Standish and myself of Hopkins. We rented a home for two weeks on the beach and explored as much as we could in that amount of time. Earlier comment wondered about where Hopkins is buried. As I recall, I don’t think they know, however, his daughter, who was also a Mayflower passenger is buried in Eastham.