Essex, Connecticut | Could You Live Here?

Essex Village is steeped in history, like a teabag dunked in time. Main Street bristles with homesteads from the early 1800s, architectural gems that draw your eye to the Connecticut River waterfront. Here the British torched 28 ships during the War of 1812, but nowadays mallards rule the docks. The village postman walks 10 miles a day, crisscrossing history, past the 1776 Griswold Inn, and down each twisty lane. Farther down Ferry Street, at the marina, shrink-wrapped boats sit dreaming of tall ships and spring. If you like a parade with roots, you’ll find “all kinds of oddball ones,” one local says. He rattles off Loser’s Day; Trees in the Rigging; and Groundhog Day, featuring a nine-foot fiberglass rodent named “Essex Ed” and families banging pots and pans to roust the sleeping prophet. You can learn a lot about a town by the things that bring it together.

Essex is on the radar, of course. With a population of about 6,500 across three villages, it’s been called “The Perfect Small American Town,” in 1,000 Places to See Before You Die. It’s also top-ranked in The 100 Best Small Towns in America. But those are just numbers. They say nothing about happy dogs cavorting beside their owners by the river, or a “Cultural Hub” that isn’t at all what you’d expect—the kinds of things that matter if you’re trying it on for size, so to speak. Just to see … Does it fit? Do I like it? Could I live here?

THE SETTING

First Impression: In-town walking is a breeze (14 miles of sidewalks, depending on whom you ask), and the antique visuals are a history lover’s dream. Plus, it’s an easy amble to the historic waterfront. But almost immediately, I start hearing buzz about the Essex Land Trust, which has championed more hidden walkways than you and your dog can shake a stick at. One of these—Cross Lots—is just across the street from the library. It’s a beauty, with meandering stone walls and gauzy dogwoods, remnants of a 16-acre farm. Fascinating signage reveals the terms of the donor’s will: the farmhouse to be demolished to restore the vista to “a true New England landscape.” The Reality: Cross Lots is just the tip. The ELT offers hikes, 12 more trails, and kayaking suggestions. If you like your wilderness tamed, pretty Essex Park on Main Street offers benches overlooking Middle Cove, letting you ponder the sailboats flitting by. Kayakers paddle the waters, there’s a choice of yacht clubs, and a schooner plies the river. In February, bald eagles soar to the front, stars of the eagerly anticipated Eagle Watch Boat Tours.

REAL ESTATE

First Impression: Halfway down Novelty Lane, within tossing distance of Middle Cove (if you’re a trebuchet), is the home of my dreams: thimble size, quaintly classic, and equidistant to everything. In the fantasy, I’ve downsized to a few boxes of books, a handful of French antiques, and a small rack of magically versatile clothing. This little dollhouse just might be in my price range. Then I see the ell in back. The Reality: Less than 10 miles away, Kate Hepburn’s former waterfront estate was previously listed at $16 million. In Essex Village, the average is $665,000—a bargain by comparison. “For under a million, closer to town is better,” says real-estate agent Timothy Boyd. “The closer they are, the smaller the houses get.” Property taxes are low, he adds, “a big attraction for retirees.” Still, Tim quickly locates eight houses for under $300,000 in Ivoryton and Centerbrook (with Essex Village, they make up the town of Essex). Double the $$, and you can move into a sea captain’s house on Bank Lane. “Essex is higher-priced,” he admits. “But real estate on South Cove and the waterfront is very desirable. It moves fast.” Insider tip: Same school district, but Ivoryton, minutes away, is at least a third cheaper.

SOCIAL SCENE

First Impression: If you’ve got kids, no problem, affirms Ann Thompson, head of adult services at the Essex Public Library; plenty of Little League and soccer to bond over. Apparently if you have an interest in anything else, too, you’re in luck. The library calls itself “The Cultural Hub”—and it actually is. Currently hosting 348 programs a year, activities include bridge, a knitting club, jewelry making, and lectures ranging from architecture to the paranormal. It’s even got books. The Reality: If you’re 22, Essex probably isn’t for you. It’s a friendly town, but there aren’t a lot of young singles. “There aren’t many apartments, and no real nightlife,” Ann says. “Town makeup is generally families or retirees,” while younger families gravitate toward Ivoryton. Another route to friendship: volunteering. “Volunteerism is huge,” she says, with a garden club, ELT, Audubon, and, of course, the library. “I don’t know anyone who isn’t volunteering for something.”

EATING OUT

First Impression: The Griswold Inn’s Tap Room is like the inside of a dark whiskey barrel, but lively and crowded, with live music. The Wine Bar serves goose mousse pâté on grilled crostini and a signature fondue, with a wine selection that gets kudos from the New York Times and Wine Spectator. Colonial classics, like chicken potpie, are served in the historic dining room, where they feel right at home. The Reality: Mostly the sidewalks roll up at 8:00 p.m., but “The Gris” stays up late (since 1776), along with the pub at The Black Seal seafood restaurant, catty-corner across Main Street. Dining options are limited in the village proper, but the Copper Beech Inn (Ivoryton), The Red House (Deep River), and Liv’s Oyster Bar (Old Saybrook) are minutes away. Olive Oyl’s in town does creative take-out; Essex Coffee & Tea pours the lattes.

UNIQUE ATTRACTION

First Impression: It’s pretty cool having your own museum right in town. The Connecticut River Museum, at Steamboat Dock, sits within a historic 1878 warehouse. Besides sheltering artifacts and manuscripts, it’s busy with eagle watches, workshops, and special exhibits. During the Holiday Train Show, the third floor whistles and chugs with a mind-blowing model town that’ll thrill your kids and revive your inner child. Owner Steven Cryan is on hand to buzz the young crowd with a remote-controlled helicopter. The Reality: The history scene gets livelier the deeper you dig. The active Essex Historical Society keeps its fingers on the pulse of the town’s heritage. Rail buffs can ride the vintage Essex Steam Train through the Connecticut River Valley, then hop on the Becky Thatcher riverboat. In May, the Loser’s Day Parade presents a fife-and-drum extravaganza to commemorate the 1814 British raid on Essex and the burning of American ships in the harbor. (The Museum of Fife and Drum is a just a drumbeat away in Ivoryton.) Overheard: “Fweaky!” exclaimed a 6-year-old, from inside a 1775 submarine at the Connecticut River Museum.

COULD YOU SHOP HERE?

First Impression: Put “French” on your shop sign, and I’m happy; thus the jazzy little French Hen and its faux treasures fit the bill. If you’re gift shopping, you can probably cover all the bases in Essex, from kids (Toys Ahoy!) to chocolate (Truffle Shots) to teapots (Weekend Kitchen) to reproduction antique games (Goods & Curiosities). The Reality: If you want to put food on your table, you’ll have to travel a few miles to Centerbrook, where all amenities—super­market, pharmacy, gas stations—are tucked away.

GETTING YOUR BEARINGS

Essex Board of Trade. essexct.com Town of Essex. essexct.gov Middlesex Chamber of Commerce. 393 Main St., Middletown. 860-347-6924; middlesexchamber.com Essex Steam Train. 1 Railroad Ave. 860-767-0103; essexsteamtrain.com